Men are everywhere but finding a good man isn’t easy, it’s not as simple as some make it seem – Tacha

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BBNaija star Natacha ‘Tacha’ Akide is making headlines over her response to a lady who said men are the easiest thing to get.

The Nigerian social media space never gets tired of debating over relationship matters, and this time around, a lady on X, Helen, claimed that many women are single by choice because men are easy targets.

Helen’s post drew Tacha’s attention, and the media personality disagreed with it.

According to the former BBNaija star, finding a good man is not as simple as people make it seem because even though men are everywhere, she wonders if they are men who add value. Tacha wrote:

“Got you, but yea finding a good man isn’t as simple as some make it seem, but being single is deff a choice. It’s not that a woman ‘can’t’ get a man—come on, men are everywhere! But a man who genuinely adds value? Now that’s different. Women know their worth, and sometimes, staying single is the best way to keep our standards where they should be.”

Tacha’s argument about good men not being easy to come by in response to the lady who claimed men are easy to get, triggered an online discussion. Read what some netizens had to say about it below:

ifys.kitchen: “Tacha is on point 💯.”

niffy_larry: “To find the one that will add value to himself self na wahala.I agree with her on this.”

Talk2click: “Imagine Tacha talking about good man 😂😂.. Chaiiii.”

Sarahoyemadetv: “Men are easy to come by. But good quality men?! Now, that one comes from above. From the Father of lights!”

abujabrowniesplug_: “Tacha is very correct ✅ If you’re just looking for a man , that’s not hard buh looking for a good man not the ones that just wants to sleep with you and dust off ;That’s a bit hard to find.”

Catalyst_ned: “Getting a man to knack u is easy, but Getting him to settle down with u is the major problem.”

Berryinkk: “It’s easy until you realize that he’s a princess😂 Nothing good comes easy. If you find a good and honest partner. Appreciate them, nothing dey outside.”

Pololiswang: “Before you keep looking for who adds value, ask if you are valuable yourself, this is for every gender. The good version of every gender is now getting hard to find, the main question is, you that is looking for the good of the opposite gender, are you categorized as the good of your gender ? If you have that self reflection, the answers will become clearer.”