Celebrity fashion designer Ruth Erikan James, better known online as Veekee James, is making headlines once more after giving two important pieces of advice to a prospective couple.
Veekee James recently attended her sister-in-law’s bridal shower and, consequently, gained a lot of attention online after a video of her there went viral.
Recall that Veekee James legally married her husband, Femi Atere, on February 1, 2024. They celebrated their traditional wedding in Akwa Ibom State and held a vintage-themed white wedding ceremony in Lagos on February 10, 2024.
With over one-year in the relationship, celebrity designer Veekee James was given the microphone at the bridal shower to share her experiences and she accepted to do so.
In the clip, Veekee James told the firthcoming bride at the bridal shower that she should never deny her husband s#x no matter how tired she is.
She added that sometimes, a wife can be so tired that the last thing she wants from a man is intercourse, however, if the man truly desires it she should give it to him even if it is by lying down and opening her legs. She said denying him s3x can make him killed himself inside the bathroom.
Also, Veekee James advises wives never to compare their husbands with another man as she asserted that they should see their husband as the perfect being for them.
Watch the video below;
See reactions below;
Walshak Kos: Dear men, when you want to have intercourse with your woman and she’s tired, allow her to rest. She’s yours, you can have her any other time. She’s not a s3x toy, she’s not a pr0$titûte. S3x demands mutual consent from both partners. Both partners must be mentally and physically ready for it. Sometimes, you don’t need to have séx with your partner before you bond. There are non séxual ways you can bond and relief your partner of some stress. You can just hold her and cuddle. Whisper sweet words to her ears. That’s enough.
Engr Alo Joseph: But if a w0man says she is tired, sexx shouldn’t be by force na. A responsible husband will understand and not get angry.
Emmanuel Torty: Be sensitive enough as a man to know why your wife is not in the mood to give you sex when you ask for it. It can’t always be about us the men! Understand her body and know when she’s ready for it. They’re so many factors that can make a woman deny her man sex. Her hormones, probably tired from her daily duties at home, not feeling loved, probably caught you cheating and kept it to herself Like I Said , a whole lot can make her deny you sex, get to find out why and handle it with love. If she doesn’t open up as to why, you can now handle it the best ways you know how. Also don’t forget , if your money finish inside relationship or marriage , your woman fit deny you sex or better still stop to moan for you 😂.
Joshua Chukwuocha: But a responsible husband will understand if his wife is indisposed, it can always be done some other time. Marriage will only thrive if there’s high sense of understanding from both parties. Couples must learn to make sacrifices.
Chigozie Lawrence Ahamefule: A loving husband will know when you are truly tired and will gently allow you to rest. You are not a s*x toy.
Joy Chinwenmeri Onwubuariri: Oh well A reasonable husband Knows you are tired and he wont even enjoy it if both of you aint in the mood . Veekee james gave advice according to her limited knowledge . It is wrong 😑 When she is tired Allow her rest When you are tired She will allow you rest.