Nollywood actress Juliana Olayode, better known as Toyo Baby from the renowned television show Jenifa’s Diary speak on the difficulties of maintaining celibacy prior to marriage have been discussed.
The actress emphasized the challenges of preserving sexual purity in a time where physical attraction is a major factor in partnerships in an exclusive interview with Oyinmomo TV.
Olayode, who has been vocal about her decision to abstain from sex until marriage, acknowledged that the presence of many attractive and desirable men makes the journey even more challenging.
She explained that as one grows older, the temptation becomes stronger, requiring continuous effort and self-discipline.
She admitted that external influences, such as social interactions and media exposure, further complicate the decision to remain celibate.
The actress emphasized that modern society promotes a culture where physical attraction is celebrated, and relationships often revolve around sexual compatibility.
According to her, resisting such societal pressures demands strong personal values and a clear understanding of one’s commitment to purity. She pointed out that many people struggle with celibacy because of the overwhelming number of potential partners who fit conventional beauty standards.
Olayode also discussed how the accessibility of social media platforms and digital content contributes to the challenge.
She noted that exposure to images and videos showcasing idealized romantic relationships can create unrealistic expectations, making it even harder to stick to one’s personal convictions.
She highlighted the importance of filtering content and surrounding oneself with individuals who respect and support such decisions.
Despite the difficulties, the actress remains committed to her stance, stressing that maintaining self-control requires intentionality and faith.
She said; “It is not easy to abstain from sex before marriage these days because there are lots of attractive men out there. But my relationship with God is the most important aspect of my life. So it’s not always easy. But what has been helping me is that I restrict the type of movies I watch and always control the type of content that appears on my social media. For example, when I come across a post that makes me uncomfortable, I block people and select an option not to show me or recommend that type of post again.”
“There have been men who came into my inbox after they heard that I am a virgin. Some of them were just curious, while others had ulterior motives. But my faith in God has kept me focused. If not for my relationship with God, I might have given in by now,” she disclosed.
Watch interview below