Popular Yoruba actor Ijoba Lande, whose real name is Ganiyu Kehinde Morufu, has left many emotional as he opened up on his recently crashed marriage.
The actor, known for his comic roles in Yoruba movies, opened up about the struggles he faced with his estranged wife, identified as Muyibat, detailing how their relationship turned into a nightmare.
In a viral video making rounds on social media, Ijoba Lande revealed that his wife subjected him to immense pain before finally leaving him. According to him, she allegedly provoked him multiple times, hoping he would react violently, but he never raised his hands against her
He said, “Before my wife moved out of the house, she showed me hell. She would deliberately provoke me to beat her, but I never did. It is not easy for a man to beat a woman he loves. Despite everything she did to me, I didn’t want her to leave, so I endured.”
The actor further disclosed that financial struggles played a major role in his emotional suffering. He recounted how he used to make N3 million monthly from Facebook and another N3 million from YouTube, in addition to his influencing deals. However, things took a turn for the worse when he was demonetized, affecting his income drastically.
In a shocking revelation, Ijoba Lande alleged that while he struggled financially, his wife was cheating on him with other men. He claimed that she refused to be intimate with him, citing hormonal issues, only to later engage in relationships outside their marriage.
He furthered, “My wife, who used to tell me her hormones were not working whenever I asked for s3x, was suddenly having high hormones for other men outside. I will always fear women.”
He also accused his wife of financial exploitation, stating that he used to entrust her with all his earnings, including his ATM card and savings contributions (Ajo), only for her to betray his trust.
He lamented, “This is a woman I used to keep my ATM card with when I had money. She was in charge of my finances. Whenever I got my ‘ajo,’ I gave her everything. Even the ajo she was contributing, I was the one paying for her.”
“I’ve not had s3x with my wife in 8 months, at my child naming ceremony, my wife’s man friend came. They danced together to the extent that he tapped my wife on her butt.”
“If I begin to list those who have slept my wife in this industry, I might not make it home before they come after me, because some of them are well connected.”
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