A Nigerian pastor, Apostle Okose Emmanuel, has caused a stir online following his recent advice to married women.
In a video he shared online via his TikTok page, the clergyman said until a woman ‘’graduates from being a wife to her husband’s side chic’, he will never stop cheating.
According to him, men does not need a wife but a lady that can shower him more romantic relationship just like side chic.
He questioned ladies on why their husbands leave them for other women who do not even respect them.
In his words, “No man needs a wife. Every man needs a side chic. Let me explain. Until you graduate from being a wife into a side chic, your husband or boyfriend will never stop cheating. You must understand that he that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing.”
“You are not a wife because you are married. You are a wife because you are found. You must understand that there are characteristics that side chics have. Ask yourself a question, why will a man leave his respectful wife and go be with a side chic who doesn’t respect him? Why will a man leave a woman who gives him peace and be with a side chic that gives him all the bills.”
“Men love to be with women that make them work because men are hunters. You must be a bad girl…The way you dress, you need to have swag, you need to have that touch of ashawo vibes, that touch of a prostitute vibes”.
The video quickly gained tractions online as social media users shared their thoughts via comment section. Some reactions are shown below:
Dini Amorapowers said, “Note there’s no formula to keep a man who doesn’t want to be kept”.
vasty said, “As a woman, do not focus on keeping a man. focus on yourself. love urself like there is no tomorrow.”
Belina said, “Problem is when you graduate, you also attract other men ooo”.
Maame Kay said, “At this point we are tired of all these plenty lessons… may the Holy Spirit should lead us and take over our homes when we marry🙏🏽”.
Nice-Couple said, “Hope my wife is listening to”.
Watch the video below:
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